Never Get Triggered By Comparison Again

Hello Creative Friend,

She did what? She made $10 million in less than 6 months? After creating her brand in 2017? No way!!
How is this possible?
She must have some great friends that helped her get started.
She must have had help.
How is she possibly reaching that many women?
Maybe she is the chosen one.
Maybe she is more talented than me…prettier…better spoken…
I’ll never make it that big…..and defeat sets in.

Yes, this was me a little while ago. Not a proud moment to admit.
But we’ve all felt this when we compare ourselves to someone else who is doing what we want to do.
It sure looked to me that the spirit guides have blessed her good…but not so much me.

This is social media, all day long for some people.
All it takes is one comparison based thought to bring us down.
And when your heart is down the black hole of being defeated, you aren’t going to manifest your dream life.
You start believing you’re meant for just ‘good enough’ rather than GREAT!

I sat there for a while. Man, this girl triggered me.
My first thoughts were, she’s got to be lying or hiding something.
But then I checked that… I am too far in tune with my spiritual Source to go there.
That thought is totally scarcity and shutting down my belief that we are unlimited creators!

And with that came, “Triggers are good! There is gold in here”
So I did what I teach, I turned to my higher wisdom….what is here for me?
What is being brought to my attention for me to learn from?

When we begin to compare our life with someone who is doing, living, being from the place we are wanting to be.
It is time to thank them, not criticize and try to find her flaws.

I was reminded that she is doing everything that is meant for me and she appeared in my life to show me how I can do it too, in my way. 

Why have I never heard of her in the online coaching? She is Canadian!!
Now instead of being triggered I felt a resonance with her.
And now I was totally intrigued with her story.
She, like me, had gone through bankruptcy and lifted herself way up, and away from the scarcity mindset.

Next thought:
I totally want to be in her energy!
So I signed up for her course without knowing anything about it! What a rush of exhileration!
This was spirit guiding me!

I was excited! My vibration was high!
And I received a download from my higher guidance the very next day, because I had remembered my unlimited potential and power and was open to receive!

So I haven’t even started the course, and already I am being given ways to expand my reach.

How does comparison trap you in your life?

Steps to go from comparison to your high vibe next level:

1. The person you are looking at is triggering you because in your heart you want what she has, and she is appearing to you to show you that you can do it too. Your mantra should be: “Yes, it’s coming to me next. It’s getting closer when I see others around me accomplishing what I want in my heart! Thank you, thank you, thank you!” You may want to send her a thank you note.

2. Remember you are the creator of your life! You are capable of manifesting your desires and your potential is limitless. Turn your attention inward to your greatness! You have the same manifesting power as she does! You have access the that infinite supply too. Step out of the scarcity mindset into the infinite flow! There is room for all of us to shine!

3. Reach out for support to help you, a mentor, a coach, a course to learn and grow! For your dreams to manifest, you will likely need a spiritual awakening, an epiphany. And this trigger is giving you the opportunity to rise to the next level in your life. This awakening is available to you when you are connected to your higher power and open to receiving guidance. A coach can help you achieve what you never thought was possible, as well as keep you accountable every step of the way. Coaches are also helping you see your truth that you may have become blind to.

Playing the comparison game can really sting. But if you don’t ignore – own it – you can remove layers and obstacles that are blocking you from manifesting your heart’s desires.

The Soulfully Aligned You Creative Portal is a safe place to develop a consistent practice of removing layers of debris, month by month. Now you can join us for July 1st through December 31st.

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And if you really want to take a leap of faith with me and do Melanie’s (the girl I was triggered by) course with me then let’s do it together. Click here:

Have a beautiful week of creating your dreams and shining your light!
Love Janice

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